voice is

to be

You have a heart of gold and you care about the people in your life.

...and you also overgive, sacrificing your dreams by putting your needs last.

Inside, you're screaming for what you want; but it's not easy to find the right words to say (especially when it comes to offering feedback or setting a boundary).

If only you could have the courage, confidence, and capacity to say what you really want to say.

But, you freeze when it's time to speak up.

Every time you try to share, you're afraid you'll be met with hostility (or worse, be ignored).

You’ve had your motives questioned or character attacked before, and it's heart-breaking to be so misunderstood.

But, what if hard conversations were easy?


...freeing yourself from paralyzing self-doubt, and standing tall in your soul's truth.
...mastering your anxiety around social situations.
...resting easier because you no longer lose precious rest endlessly turning over a past/present/future encounter.
...speaking from the heart AND having your needs be received, respected, and acted on.
...believing that what you say matters and has worth.

Ready to stand up for yourself and make this vision your reality?

Enter SOUL*Speak: a communication course for empaths who are sick of avoiding hard conversations.
Learn how to speak your truth with courage and kindness—so you can create the healthy relationships that you deserve.

Six Powerful Video Lessons,
Empowering You to:

Lesson 1

Be HONEST in "layers"—so you can stop telling the whole truth to the wrong people or resorting to white lies.

Lesson 2

Stop procrastinating and prioritize your INTEGRITY: helping you stop putting off tricky conversations.

Lesson 3

DISCERN when to tell the truth (and to whom). Timing can determine whether you're rejected or respected.

Lesson 4

LET GO of your expectations: say what needs to be said without needing to know (or control) the outcome.

Lesson 5

Work through conflict with more CONFIDENCE. I'll flip your script on what conflict really is, so it stops feeling so scary.

Lesson 6

EMBODY and EXPRESS your truth for the long-term: power up your words for good with these surprisingly simple tools.

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Improve Your
Communication Now

Make true connections
Finally feel safe
Gain courage
Protect your authenticity
Make a positive lifelong impact for you and everyone you engage with
“As a result of my work with Lola, I've stopped struggling to fit in and am just MYSELF. My relationships are deeper and filled with meaning. I let my intuition lead. I stand up for myself … I am more and more in my power. I am so grateful for this work.”
Kristen E.

Corporate Marketing VP

"Lola is more than simply skilled at business. And more than simply skilled at helping you see where you’re not living in integrity with your own dreams, desires, and values. Lola is walking her talk and sharing it with aplomb. She’s walking her own authentic life and using her multifaceted skills to help the rest of us do the same. Lucky us.”
Dr. Samantha

Naturopath & Author

“Lola's work is different. So, so different. Life-changing, and so refreshingly honest and effective and eye-opening and -- well, I wish I had a word for it, but it makes my soul feel like it's expanding and is endless. Her work speaks to me so much more than anything else.”
Catherine K.


"I wanted to take the time and say how unique and powerful thing you’ve created. I’ve never seen this subject explained in so much clarity. I love that you give us practices, which are simple and not so overwhelming in their form and yet so potent. It feels like I’ve been waiting for something like this my whole life (or more ?) and I am finally getting the answers.”
Petra S.

EMPATH*ology Student

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Through her courses and programs, Lola Pickett empowers empaths  to rewire their brains, behavior, and bodies so they can create sustainable success & happiness. She is the published author of the Wild Messengers Alchemical Tarot and founder of EMPATH*ology™—her outrageously popular 10-week online course.

Her offerings blend cutting-edge neuroscience with trauma healing AND playful adventure to create powerful and lasting results. When not facilitating transformational work, you’ll find Lola on a hike, wildcrafting medicines, and loving up on her husband and kids in the mountains north of San Diego, California.

Frequently Asked Questions

What's the course's format?

I created this content to be as digestible and useful as possible.

Each lesson consists of a video training (between 15-30 minutes) plus a powerful multi-page PDF workbook to help you process the work and—most importantly—put it into action.

You can go through the entire course at your own pace - though I recommend taking the time to do the exercises and allow the practices to percolate before moving onto the next lesson.

Is live coaching available?

YES! Private sessions with me are usually not available outside of my 5-figure coaching packages. But, you'll receive 2 one-on-one sessions with me (a $1,000+ value) if you upgrade your purchase when you checkout.

In these sessions, I'll personally help you:

  • find the truest, kindest words to say
  • define your boundaries
  • listen to—and release—your anxiety
  • troubleshoot a sticky situation
  • negotiate a raise, lease renewal, or other important opportunity
  • navigate conflict with a partner or friend
  • go "no contact" with a harmful person
  • get clear on the roots of your fears/procrastination
  • bust through your resistance

Get two powerful sessions and the full SOUL*Speak course for only $597!

P.S. You won't see another offer for one on one work with me at this price and there are limited spaces available.

I’m scared of conflict, how will this course help me?

Absolutely! Conflict can be terrifying, and there are many reasons for this... Empaths have a particularly strong resistance to conflict because we can feel the other person's pain, discomfort, or judgement (in addition to our own feelings). It can be so overwhelming that we just want to put our heads in the sand and let it blow over.

But, that doesn't help anyone in the long run. The more we deny our feelings and needs, the worse we feel. I understand these unique dynamics AND our need to express ourselves with kindness and gentleness.

In this course, you'll not only learn practical ways to handle conflict - you'll discover that conflict isn't really what you think it is: neutralizing your fear around it for good.

What if I’m not happy with my purchase?

We're confident that you'll not only love this course, but find immense value in it over time. But, if after 14 days, you've watched the lessons and completed the workbooks and you're not satisfied with your purchase, we'll return your money to you.

We just ask to see that you've put in the work; after all, YOU are a critical factor in your own success!

Note that we can't offer refunds on coaching sessions that have already occurred.

SOUL*Speak Online Course

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